Heajin (Hailie) Kim (Photo: Instagram @nyc_photographer_nikita)
March 30, 2021 Op-Ed By Hailie Kim
There was a distinct sinking and roiling in my stomach.
“Are you a prostitute?” a man asked. I was 17 at the time. I was not, in fact, a prostitute. I was and am, however, clearly an East Asian woman.
This question: “are you a prostitute?” is one that made it so that between the ages of 18 and 22, I never wore a v-neck top.
Even my prom dress went up to my neck. It was, or so I thought, very clearly my fault. Maybe if I hadn’t worn a v-neck shirt, a man wouldn’t have stalked me to my middle school when I was 13, driving alongside me and insisting that I get in his car. Maybe if I hadn’t worn a v-neck sweater, a man wouldn’t have followed me back home from school across the 39th Street bridge and grabbed at my chest when I was 17.
This kind of fetishization and sexualization of Asian women was a clear factor in the murder of six Asian women in Atlanta.
The murderer himself confessed to targeting Asian women because they were “temptations” for his sex addiction. This sexualization of Asian women has historically been tied to xenophobia, with Chinese women being barred entry from the United States in the 19th century, suspected of being prostitutes.
There have, of course, been other historic forms of violence against Asians from the Japanese internment camps here in the US, to the deportation of Koreans from Russia to Central Asia and other Soviet satellite states in the 1930s.
The words used to sexualize Asian women include “exotic” and “submissive.”
These are adjectives that have also been used to Other Asians at large, especially “exotic.” The phrase “chinavirus” is an example of this, making COVID-19 seem exotic or foreign, and other.
In order to un-Other Asians, it is necessary for there to be more Asian representation in popular culture to start undoing the years of negative portrayals of Asians in the Arts. At the level of government, we will also need to better integrate our neighborhoods and public schools.
We need universal after school in order to ensure children of all races and socio-economic backgrounds spend time finding commonalities with each other. Perhaps I’m a little biased as an educator, but education, education, education are the ways to ensure hate crimes like the ones we are seeing cease.
Hailie Kim is an adjunct professor in the English department at Hunter College. She is running for City Council in District 26 to represent Sunnyside, Woodside, Long Island City and parts of Astoria.
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Hey professor Hailie kim, if it is Chinese you are speaking about, then say Chinese. It is racist, and, close minded, to limit the term “Asian” to Chinese people. These are the countries in Asia. Education, education, education.
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Afghanistan
Armenia
Azerbaijan
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Bahrain
Bangladesh
Bhutan
Brunei
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Cambodia
China
Cyprus
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Georgia
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India
Indonesia
Iran
Iraq
Israel
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Japan
Jordan
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Kazakhstan
Kuwait
Kyrgyzstan
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Laos
Lebanon
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Malaysia
Maldives
Mongolia
Myanmar (formerly Burma)
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Nepal
North Korea
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Oman
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Pakistan
Palestine
Philippines
Q
Qatar
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Russia
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Saudi Arabia
Singapore
South Korea
Sri Lanka
Syria
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Taiwan
Tajikistan
Thailand
Timor-Leste
Turkey
Turkmenistan
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United Arab Emirates (UAE)
Uzbekistan
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Vietnam
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Yemen